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The BariGirls Principles of Eating – Success- Yes Done!!!!!!

✅ Key Principles from The BariGirls
Here are some of the major points The BariGirls emphasize:
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After surgery you’ll begin with a pureed foods phase, where foods are cooked until soft then blended. For example: pears, bananas, apples, mangoes, cooked vegetables, chickpeas, etc. BariGirls+1
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In that phase they advise adding a scoop of protein powder into the blended fruits/vegetables mixture to boost protein intake. BariGirls
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They remind you to stop eating at the slightest feeling of fullness (because your capacity is much lower post-surgery). BariGirls+1
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Not just quantity, but nutrient density is critical — because you’ll eat less volume, what you do eat needs to be high quality. This aligns with standard bariatric nutrition advice.
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It’s about a new, lifelong way of eating — they talk about “Step into your new life. Eat. Drink. Be Bari. Let the new you shine.” BariGirls
🕒 Typical Nutrition Stages
While The BariGirls cover pureed foods in depth, many guidelines (including from the American Society for Metabolic and Bariatric Surgery) outline a multi-phase progression:
Here’s a simplified breakdown:
| Phase | Description | What to focus on |
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| Phase 1 – Liquids | Immediately post-surgery: clear or very light liquids. Mayo Clinic+1 | Hydration, start protein-rich drinks if allowed. |
| Phase 2 – Pureed | Soft, blended foods (The BariGirls devote a post to this). BariGirls | Protein-rich purees, vegetables/fruits blended, small portions. |
| Phase 3 – Soft | Slowly introduce soft, chewable foods (e.g., eggs, soft meats, cooked veggies) as tolerated. Mayo Clinic+1 | Chew thoroughly, portion control. |
| Phase 4 – Solid/Long term | Eventually transitioning to a “normal” texture diet — but with lifelong adaptations. Bari Life+1 | High protein, nutrient-dense, small portions, hydrate, avoid certain foods. |
The BariGirls particularly explain the pureed phase: “The pureed stage lasts for 2-3 weeks… Breakfast can be a serving of pureed fruit … 1/3 cup or less, depending on how you tolerate that amount.” BariGirls
🎯 Important Long-Term Habits
Beyond the phases, here are important habits to adopt (supported by The BariGirls and general guidance):
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Protein first: Emphasize high-quality lean protein at each meal. Because you eat less volume, protein helps maintain muscle, satiety, and healing.
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Drink fluids separately from meals: Avoid drinking right before, during, and just after meals so you don’t fill up on fluids and leave no room for nutrient-rich foods.
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Hydration: Keep up adequate fluid intake (some guidelines say ~64 ounces/day) to avoid dehydration, constipation etc. ASMBS
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Chew thoroughly, eat slowly: Because the digestive tract has changed, large pieces of food or eating too quickly can cause discomfort, blockage, nausea.
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Avoid high sugar, high fat, carbonated drinks, alcohol: These can cause complications (e.g., “dumping syndrome”) and hinder weight-loss.
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Lifelong vitamins/minerals: Because of reduced intake and sometimes absorption, you will likely require daily supplementation as your medical team recommends.
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Portion control & mindful eating: Stop when you are full, avoid grazing or mindlessly snacking. The BariGirls stress “stop at the slightest feeling of fullness”. BariGirls+1
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Support / mindset: The BariGirls emphasize the psychological and behavioral side (“Finding happiness within yourself post weight loss surgery”, “Change your mind about healthy eating”). BariGirls
📝 Practical “Take-away” Checklist
Here’s a practical list you can use:
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At each meal, eat your protein first (lean meat, fish, eggs, dairy, soy, legumes as appropriate)
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Keep meal portions very small initially; progress slowly as tolerated
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Drink fluids between meals, not during meals
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Avoid high-sugar, high-fat, carbonated, alcoholic beverages
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Chew every bite thoroughly until it’s mush/puree-like before swallowing
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Use multivitamins/minerals daily as prescribed
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Prioritize fresh, minimally-processed foods (vegetables, fruit, lean protein)
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Be gentle with yourself: change takes time — both physically and mentally
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Follow your surgeon/dietitian’s instructions and attend regular follow-ups

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